Dream big.

(photo taken from the Florence and the Machine Facebook page)

"I try to maintain a healthy dose of daydreaming, to remain sane..." -Florence Welch 

Imaginary Dream OTD

Dreaming of this little number on my wrist. Hoping my upcoming birthday may yield it or enough money to gift it to myself. A bit of a throwback [in honor of Thursday] with it's classic black and white design. But WARNING this piece is modern and sophisticated, no numbers; do not purchase if you are a digital kind of girl or simply can't tell time. Psst, we won't tell anyone, its the new age's fault not yours. 

Currently on sale for 25% off at Nordstrom.com. For just over $130 this baby can be yours today! That is, if you have great style. 

Oh Kate Spade, you just get it... and me.

Happy shopping.

J.

Simple Spaces

In my opinion, clutter has the power to overwhelm you. To make you feel less motivated and to make tasks seem more daunting. Some people think I am crazy for decorating my cubical, but in reality, I spend most of my time here so why not enjoy it! Here's 3 simple steps for keeping your home office [or even your cubical] calm and clutter free:

Photo and decor cred to Katelyn James Photography

1. Keep things neutral. A neutral palette puts the mind at ease and gives off a feeling of 'clean' that will be sure to keep you stress free. Don't completely shy away from color; pick one or two accent colors and incorporate them into your design through furniture and accessories. 

2. Less is more. Maybe your job demands 5 different colored highlighters or 3 envelope styles... that doesn't mean we need to see them all. Find a desk that has adequate storage or buy magazine racks or desk organizers to hide knick-knacks and clutter. A clean desktop will be a fresh space to start up new projects and will help you keep from feeling 'swamped' by your work.

3. Mix things up regularly. If you're anything like me, you find yourself bored with your office decor every few months. Go out and buy yourself a few new pieces, but make sure to recycle or stash away the old ones, until you're ready to remodel again. File organizers or pen holders come in all shapes, sizes, and designs and tend to be on the cheaper end of things. Cough cough, Target dollar section! Just remember what you learned in tip #2 and if you do opt to add to your desk, take something away, as well. 

Happy Wednesday. I can almost see you, Friday.

J.

Imaginary Dream [thought] OTD

For me anger is fuel & passion. Something I don't like motivates me to initiate change; sometimes this means changing myself and sometimes it means helping others change. Speak your mind. But keep your ears on. Each story has 2 sides and everybody has a little villain in them. I was a villain this week.

Be willing to accept your flaws and separate who you are from them. Bad qualities shouldn't define you. Above all else...

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.” -Wendy Mass

Mid-week food for thought. Take it how you will.

J.

Imaginary Dream OTD

Less of a dream, and more of an awesome [AWESOME] idea. So simple, that you'll wish you thought of it years ago. Photo and idea courtesy of the genius mom blogging at www.noisecoveredindirt.com. I haven't had time to check, but I am willing to be she has other great ideas, so check out her page!



I don't know about you, but after 1 day my suitcase is torn to shreds. I have heard about rolling clothes to save space, but never thought of rolling a hole outfit. Love this. Take one roll out, dress, and repeat each day. 

Useful tip for for my upcoming travels. We are nearly 1 month away. I love vacations booked last minute; almost instant gratification. 

You're welcome. ;)

J.

Imaginary Dream OTD

Today, I am dreaming of a magical world. A world free of fighting and anger, and filled with mystery and whim. I need that.

Take me away.

J.

Friendships in your 20's...

Life in your 20s has its ups and downs. On one hand, you are breaking free of that horrible time suck they call 'school' and taking back your free time, but on the other you're learning that your college days are long gone and that your priorities and, more importantly, schedule are changing. 

Welcome to my life. 

I graduated college a semester early, so I was able to stay 'stuck' in my old life for a little longer. My weekends still revolved around going out partying and I was over 21, but certainly not too old to dance on a bar. 

But with the mid-twenties approaching (I turn 25 next month) I am finding it hard to find friends on my same page. I like to go out for drinks and don't get me wrong, I love dancing. But I'm a lot mellower than I used to be... I like to think it's the real me. That the party-goer me was just my insecurities coming to life and looking for acceptance. My fiancee has had a lot to do with that change as well. Not merely because I now have someone to do nothing with, but because I've learned to be less selfish and think of others wants and needs, too. He is not the going-out type, at least not to the places that I would have frequented. Now I find myself second guess making plans to go out to these places, not because I am choosing him over my friends, but because I want him included in the things I do. Hes at the top of my priority list. 

In a nutshell, I found a really great article that sums up exactly why you drift from your friends and old lifestyle, once you're in your 20's. Check it out here -----> 7 Reasons Why You Lose So Many Friends in your 20s.

Do you have extra friend baggage to get rid of?

J.